I would be willing to look at those out of town locations, in fact I advocated for it, but the wife doesn't want it. Who knows, if this deal falls through, we might be able to revisit the idea.
The house we're going for right now is a detached home which means no sharing walls with a neighbor, which is already a big step up for us compared to our current situation. On the one side of the house, there is a garage, then next to that another garage, and next to that is the next house, so that's a fair distance apart in an urban environment. On the other side, there is a strip of free space in this house's garden (this might be a bit of the disputed part, but we still don't have clarity on that), then there's a foot path leading down the hill, then there's another free strip of the next house's garden and then the next house. Across the street there is I think one house with a bit of a driveway, so that's not very close either. And at the back there is just a downhill slope with some trees in the valley, so no neighbors there. Within a city, I don't think you could get a much better location than something like that.
I've made some screenshots from Google Maps at various zoom levels to try to illustrate a bit.
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