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shavedape

shavedape

Well Known GateFan
Tropicana said:
I dated a couple of 40 yo guys before, sadly they are far from mature and ever so stupid, it got boring fast. You just knew it won't last when their idea of a good time was spending it in a twinkie nightclub, and not in a nice quiet restaurant.
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The opposite is also true. When you're 40 and dating someone 20 and they say to you "Do it to me like they do in a porn movie" you'll find yourself wishing you were dating someone your own age.

Sure it sounds hot on the surface but when you're 40 and you have to do all the work in the sack it's a whole different story, trust me. Trying not to shatter the veneer of a 20 year old's fantasy verses the underlying reality of what sex is honestly like grows old really fast.

"Do me like a porno" -- GTFO!
 
Tropicana

Tropicana

Council Member
Do some 20ish yo girls actually say that?

I find that pretty bizarre, **currently having straight porn images flashes through my head** Hmm.... bizarre to say the least.

In the gay world, sadly, young guys are seen by some older guys as toys. They treat the young ones with no respect, as if they own them, or deserve them and they can do whatever they wish with them. So yeah, some are simply jerks. The ones I dated aren't that bad, but they did claim that they didn't like drama (who does?), but they end up being the cause of the drama.

Mainly they want NSA but could get really jealous when the young ones play with other guys. They really should learn not to get all possessive if they want NSA.
 
shavedape

shavedape

Well Known GateFan
Tropicana said:
Do some 20ish yo girls actually say that?
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Who said I was talking about girls? ;)

I find that pretty bizarre, **currently having straight porn images flashes through my head** Hmm.... bizarre to say the least.

In the gay world, sadly, young guys are seen by some older guys as toys. They treat the young ones with no respect, as if they own them, or deserve them and they can do whatever they wish with them. So yeah, some are simply jerks. The ones I dated aren't that bad, but they did claim that they didn't like drama (who does?), but they end up being the cause of the drama.
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Nothing creeps me out more than an older person acting like an immature teenager. Gay men might tend to have what's called a "retarded adolescence" but that certainly isn't all of them. Anyone who is prone to drama whilst enjoying their 40's (and beyond) is simply a pathetic creature. I don't associate with people like that, male or female.
 
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Gatefan1976

Well Known GateFan
Hmm, perhaps thats my sign I'm "mature" I have to look up No Strings Attached? :D
To be fair though, Mrs GF and myself have been togeather for almost 15 years now, my NSA days were in my late teens.
 
Tropicana

Tropicana

Council Member
shavedape said:
Who said I was talking about girls? ;)



Nothing creeps me out more than an older person acting like an immature teenager. Gay men might tend to have what's called a "retarded adolescence" but that certainly isn't all of them. Anyone who is prone to drama whilst enjoying their 40's (and beyond) is simply a pathetic creature. I don't associate with people like that, male or female.
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Amen bro!

I have never came across a guy asking to do it like in porn films... cos honestly, the way they do it in porn films is how it's done in the RW, for gay sex anyway.
 
shavedape

shavedape

Well Known GateFan
Tropicana said:
Amen bro!

I have never came across a guy asking to do it like in porn films... cos honestly, the way they do it in porn films is how it's done in the RW, for gay sex anyway.
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Maybe in jolly olde England mate. ;) Here they expect you to be a cross between a jackhammer and an Energizer bunny.
 
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Graybrew1

Guest
Gatefan1976 said:
Hmm, perhaps thats my sign I'm "mature" I have to look up No Strings Attached? :D
To be fair though, Mrs GF and myself have been togeather for almost 15 years now, my NSA days were in my late teens.
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Impressive, GF. Good Man.
 
Rac80

Rac80

The Belle of the Ball
Gatefan1976 said:
Hmm, perhaps thats my sign I'm "mature" I have to look up No Strings Attached? :D
To be fair though, Mrs GF and myself have been togeather for almost 15 years now, my NSA days were in my late teens.
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15 years? you are barely started kiddo...Mr. Rac and I will be celebrating 30 years of marriage this fall and 31 years since we met :) - time sure flies when you are having fun! :D I never had NSA- don't beleive in it myself. ;) although i saw this horrible movie trailer for NSA- offensive and stupid as heck! :P
 
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Graybrew1

Guest
Rac80 said:
15 years? you are barely started kiddo...Mr. Rac and I will be celebrating 30 years of marriage this fall (and 31 years since we met :) - time sure flies when you are having fun! :D I never had NSA- don't beleive in it myself. ;) although i saw this horrible movie trailer for NSA- offensive and stupid as heck! :P
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Also impressive Rac, I am just a babe in the woods of marriage. A mere ten years. But were have been together for almost 14. I never wanted NSA either, but I dated a few jerks who did in my twenties.
 
Mr. A

Mr. A

Super Moderator +
In my early 20s I'd be going for SA, NSA, and everything else I could get :eek: :icon_lol:
But now after only 3 years of marriage I have a beautiful Mrs. A with me who still looks like she's in her 20s, so why dwell in the past...

BTW Tropicana, you DO NOT belong in this thread. Not when it comes to maturity measured in years! :)
 
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Graybrew1

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Mr. A said:
In my early 20s I'd be going for SA, NSA, and everything else I could get :eek: :icon_lol:
But now after only 3 years of marriage I have a beautiful Mrs. A with me who still looks like she's in her 20s, so why dwell in the past...

BTW Tropicana, you DO NOT belong in this thread. Not when it comes to maturity measured in years! :)
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Ouch. LOL
 
Tropicana

Tropicana

Council Member
I created this thread mister. :P

But years is just a number at the end of the day, it's really the experience that counts. ;)
 
Mr. A

Mr. A

Super Moderator +
I remember when somebody asked JF in an interview what he honestly thought about SGU or the TPTB, and he answered something like "Honesty isn't always the best response..."

So I'll just say it's a tight race! But you are certainly trailing waaay behind, my friend. :icon_lol:
 
Terran77

Terran77

Captain Tightpants
shavedape said:
The opposite is also true. When you're 40 and dating someone 20 and they say to you "Do it to me like they do in a porn movie" you'll find yourself wishing you were dating someone your own age.

Sure it sounds hot on the surface but when you're 40 and you have to do all the work in the sack it's a whole different story, trust me. Trying not to shatter the veneer of a 20 year old's fantasy verses the underlying reality of what sex is honestly like grows old really fast.

"Do me like a porno" -- GTFO!
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I once got, "teach me something new"... And all I could think of was "well, I know a little Spanish."
 
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