Okay, here it is three years after starting this thread, and in that time I have been integrating three cats into my apartment. The two who were friends, the ones I planned for...and then Fisher who came a few months later as an emergency adoption.

The thread talks about the fights, the hiding and establishing territories and such.
Three cats, Siete (the 7 toed cat and the alpha), Dante, (the cat with a weight problem), and Fisher (the cat who grew up alone). All three cats are neutered males and all are 8 years old from different litters. Breeds are Maine Coon (Siete), Burmese (Fisher), and Domestic shorthair (Dante).
After all the fights, howling and hissing and avoiding, they are all getting along fine. Dante is the black and white cat on the left, Fisher is the black cat and Siete is on top of the cat tree.
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And Fisher, whose very first reaction to me petting him resulted in a full puncture hand bleeding wound, has become a lovebug. He and Siete are friends now, and they gently touch noses every time they meet.
But what made me write this post is that Fisher did something amazing which he has never done. He always liked to be near me, but he did not want to be right next to me and never on my lap. He does not love to be picked up either. We were playing with the wand toy, as usual right after around 8pm when the cats eat. I put the toy away and sat on the couch and Fisher just jumped on there right next to me and went to sleep on me in minutes, purring the whole time.
WHAT?! A first! After three years?
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