Gatefan1976
Well Known GateFan
Expensive breed.
Expensive breed.
Most of the cats I have ever had have been the same dude.Pound rescue.
Charcoal Grew Russian Blue
Most of the cats I have ever had have been the same dude.
Dude, get a kitten.
Dude, 16 years is a damn stretch for an outdoor cat, let alone a housecat. I would realistically be looking at 5 years at best, and everything else being a bonus. My first cat (who lives at my parents house) is 14, and he is looking VERY ragged now. Personally, I don't think he will see out this year, which sorta worries me as he attached himself to my Nan more than me, and she is getting quite tired of life as well.
Indoor cats live much longer than outdoor cats. My neighbor's cat is also 14 years, but she is fine. She moves slower than my cats, and she has gray hair but she is healthy and active. Im gonna hurt when one of my boys passes. I love these cats.
Trust your research, or trust someone who has always had cats, your call dude.
Smokey (who was the family cat we got when I was born) lived till she was 17, and she was a combination inside at night, outside by day cat, and she only died because she developed a brain tumor. (oh, she was older, and crotchety, but she was still *herself* up until the very end)
I am not trying to "piss on your parade", not by any stretch, but EVERY cat I know has lived longer as a "combo-cat" simply because there is more to "hold their interest" in the outside world, just like people. Give it 2-3 years, but I really, really suggest getting a kitten, because being able to "train an new master for you" will keep THEM (your brood) younger. They are not so different from us in that regard.
The consensus among veterinarians and organizations such as the American Veterinary Medical Association (AVMA) is that it’s wiser to keep cats indoors. “Considering the potential dangers outdoors, an indoor lifestyle is much safer for cats,” Brunt says. “Indoor cats have a much lower likelihood of becoming hurt or ill from outdoor hazards.”
As evidence, indoor cats live longer than their outdoor counterparts. Cats who are kept indoors can reach the ripe old age of 17 or more years, whereas outdoor cats live an average of just two to five years. Another reason for indoor cats’ longevity is that it’s easier for their owners to identify health problems early, before they become life threatening.
Note what they are speaking about however, THREATS. I have little doubt that in a built up area, an indoor cat has a greater chance of survival, cause, ya know, there are no cars on the 5th floorIm just going by the ASPCA data I have read, as far as indoor cats living longer than outdoor cats or combo outdoor/indoor:
http://pets.webmd.com/cats/features/should-you-have-an-indoor-cat-or-an-outdoor-cat
Well, that's more a fear of loss and hurt, and I don't blame you for that in the slightest. The cat that sits on your chest, purring because it is happy is a hard thing to replace. That little sound fills you with.........love, much like hearing a child when you tickle them (and there is NO better sound, believe me)Before I had these cats, I had another cat when I was in my 20s. He was a huge cat and had the coolest personality ever. But when he died I was devastated and told myself I would never be owned by another cat. I discussed this with Illiterati before I ended up with Sherry's cats. But Felix was an indoor outdoor cat.
I don't think you are a cat lady, I just think you like the company.As far as the kitten, although it might appear that I am the male version of a cat lady, I really am not.
Don't get a kitten now, get one in 3-5 years, when yours are getting tired, or when THEY loose one of their friends. I am not suggesting you have 4 cats, I am suggesting a kitten is a good way to keep your other cats young. It forces them to play, and to engage rather than being old, crotchety pricks.Im a sensible, regular guy! Four cats is too many even for an animal lover like me. So far, no females have reacted negatively to me having three cats, because I told them before they ever saw the cats. My best friend however, was shocked that I would decide to have ANY cats, so when I ended up with three of them, he was shocked. But he is my best friend so none of that matters. He is not that responsive to cats, so of course they want to be all over him.
You learned to be a parent, a little late, but that's ok.If I didnt have three cats, a kitten could tempt me. I am not sure I would have had any cats at all if Siete had not adopted me when I was living with Sherry. He is such a love bug and his personality is so unique, he was irresistible. Dante got in because he was Siete's friend. If I never had met these cats I might not have small pride of cats in my apartment.
Note what they are speaking about however, THREATS. I have little doubt that in a built up area, an indoor cat has a greater chance of survival, cause, ya know, there are no cars on the 5th floor
If you look at long lived felines however, they are mostly outdoors for a long time, even if it is just to lounge around in the sun after their servant has fed them
Well, that's more a fear of loss and hurt, and I don't blame you for that in the slightest. The cat that sits on your chest, purring because it is happy is a hard thing to replace. That little sound fills you with.........love, much like hearing a child when you tickle them (and there is NO better sound, believe me)
I don't think you are a cat lady, I just think you like the company.
Don't get a kitten now, get one in 3-5 years, when yours are getting tired, or when THEY loose one of their friends. I am not suggesting you have 4 cats, I am suggesting a kitten is a good way to keep your other cats young. It forces them to play, and to engage rather than being old, crotchety pricks.
You learned to be a parent, a little late, but that's ok.
Siete looks like my Smokey that I grew up with.
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Did you ever notice you arms look like a white dude, yet your face looks more like a black dude?? You are actually darker than I thought you were
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Maine Coons are known for their "empathy" so the fact that if you were *forced* to make a choice it would be him is not a real surprise to me. He has probably imprinted on you quite a lot by now, moreso than a lot of other breeds can.
DUDENot only that, but my skin color is "seasonal". I am lighter in the winter, and darker in the summer, with the awkward "in between" look during the change. My exposed skin will darken whilst my legs and arms wont darken until I get some sun. The picture of Dante on the couch was taken in the daytime, and the recent pictures of Siete were taken in the dim light of my livingroom. This is a picture of my arm in the bathroom light:
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She did, otherwise he would not be so balanced.Yes, he is imprinted heavily on me. Sherry never could give this special cat the attention and love he deserved.
He wants to be with you, make sure you are ok, you are the "pet" in his mind, not the other way aroundThat was one of the reasons he would ask her to be let out. He asks me too, and I actually do let him out but I go out with him (usually to smoke). He is good to obey me when I say he cant go to the gate or under the stairs, and he always comes to me when I call him.
For all their arrogance, cats really CARE about people, even if it comes from a selfish place sometimes. If Mike is housebound to an extent, you should let Siete just go when he wishes, and enjoy the company.He "owns" all the humans in the building (about 20 people total), and he recognizes the voices of many of them. He will follow the voices to the apartments they are coming out of. My veteran neighbor Mike loves Siete. He speaks to him through the window when I am at work, and whenever he hears Mike's voice he will jump to the window. When I go over to Mike's place, he wants to come along and Mike allows him.
Good choice, they are great cats. Most of mine have been long haired Persian mixes (I like fluffball cats, what can I say ) and they tend to be pretty "cluey" about people, far moreso than domestic shorthairs.I think if I get a kitten later, it will be a Maine Coon.